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If you’ve ever tiptoed across a minefield of Lego, or wondered how on earth your toddler can be “bored” while surrounded by enough toys to open a small shop, you’re not alone. Modern family life seems to come with a never-ending tide of plastic, cuddly, noisy and flashing things. And yet, despite the mountains of stuff, many children will still insist they’ve “got nothing to play with.” Enter: toy rotation.
The idea sounds deceptively simple. Instead of giving your child access to every single toy at once, you divide them into smaller groups and only put out a few at a time. After a week or two, you swap them around. Suddenly, that abandoned fire engine looks exciting again, and the dollhouse has regained its magic. But does it actually work, or is it just another parenting fad designed to make us feel guilty about not doing enough?
At its heart, toy rotation is a way of managing choice. When kids have too many options, they often flit from one thing to another without settling. By limiting the number of toys available, you’re effectively saying: here’s a manageable menu, not an all-you-can-eat buffet.
It doesn’t mean hiding away everything your child loves. The idea is to create variety and reduce overwhelm. You might keep out a puzzle, a building toy, something creative like crayons, a role-play toy, and a favourite comfort object. The rest goes into storage until it’s time for the “big reveal.”
For some, it’s about reclaiming their living room floor from the clutter. For others, it’s about encouraging their children to engage more deeply with the toys they have, rather than nagging for the latest shiny thing.
Child development experts often point out that too much choice can be overwhelming. Research from psychology suggests that children (and adults!) are more focused and satisfied when offered fewer options. It’s the same reason you sometimes give up scrolling through Netflix—too many choices can actually make us less happy. Toy rotation applies that principle to the playroom.
And let’s be honest: there’s also the sheer joy of watching your child greet an old toy like it’s brand new. You might even save money by realising that “new toy buzz” can come from what’s already in the cupboard.
Of course, nothing in parenting is quite that simple.
If you’re tempted to try toy rotation, here are a few gentle suggestions:
The answer, predictably, is: it depends. Many parents swear by it, reporting calmer playtimes, less clutter, and happier kids. Others find it more hassle than it’s worth, or discover their children aren’t fussed by the grand “reveal.”
What’s clear is that toy rotation isn’t about perfection. It’s not another bar to clear in the endless obstacle course of parenting. Instead, think of it as one tool in the box—something you can try, tweak, or abandon without guilt.
At the very least, it can help slow down the Lego tide and remind children (and us adults) that sometimes, less really is more. And if it buys you ten peaceful minutes with a cup of tea while your child re-discovers their forgotten train set? Well, that’s a rotation worth trying.
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